Wednesday, March 03, 2010
The Decision to Follow Gd
To some extent, they feel the pull of The Land. On some level, they know that Jews belong in Israel and not in Baltimore or Brooklyn or LA. And maybe, they even feel the historical tug of being a Jew alive in the first decades after Jewish dominion over the Land of Israel has been restored, and the responsibility that confers on us to return Home and live with Gd.
But they are scared. So they focus on the barriers. Mostly, it's economic. Sometimes it's a concern for their children and how they will adjust. Less often, there are elderly parents to care for.
And here is what I want to say to them.
Do you imagine that only independently wealthy, single, childless orphans make aliyah? Who doesn't have any barriers to making aliyah?
Take our case. My husband is, bli ayin hara, a very successful pulpit rabbi with a long term contract in a strong and stable congregation. He will never be able to work as a pulpit rabbi in Israel. Making aliyah means he has to walk away from his career, his passion and his life's work of over two decades and he has to reinvent himself. Will he be successful? We can't know in advance.
I have always earned my living in language-intensive careers, but I barely speak Hebrew, despite years of study. We both have aging parents. And we are taking a teenage daughter with us. We won't be able to afford our life insurance premiums anymore. Talk about barriers. Talk about risks.
I'm enumerating these very real circumstances because most people have them. Or some permutation of them. For some, such circumstances are mountains, over which they cannot climb.
For me, these are risks I am prepared to take because I believe that Hashem runs the world. The same Hashem who gives me a sense of economic security in the US can provide me with a sense of economic security in Israel.
What's the alternative? Stay put in a foreign culture, where I believe with all my heart and soul that I don't belong, and put all my chips on the possibility that my life will continue as it has been going? Every day presents new risks. A hundred things could dramatically change the contours of my life in a heartbeat. A bad diagnosis, Gd-forbid. An earthquake or other natural disaster. A layoff. A stock market crash. The arrival of Moshiach. The decision to stay only makes sense if I assume that everything will remain the same. But who can guarantee that? Life changes. That's life.
And why would I think making aliyah is supposed to be easy? For whom is it easy? Who is not at least somewhat conflicted? Who goes without leaving someONE, or someTHING, precious behind? Betcha most of the people who will read these words in Israel made aliyah with some measure of conflict themselves.
I'm not saying that the concerns people have aren't legitimate. I'm just saying that the decision to make aliyah has a non-rational, metaphysical, spiritual element that has to be accounted for. If you leave Gd out of the cheshbon and only count the rational, economic factors, you might as well move to Kentucky, since Kentucky enjoys one of the lowest costs of living in the US. But if Gd is a factor in the calculus, then it becomes much clearer. At least to me.
I became religious close to 25 years ago. It wasn't a rational decision then either. It was a decision to follow Gd.
Aliyah - same thing. Same exact thing.
Posted by Rivkah Lambert Adler at 6:29 AM